There's the error. Weed alone won't do it... Has to be some other free will unity. Cool to be Hip was the ticket...So what if we can save a triple amputee nowadays. I would have rather done without the war, than have that technology. So with technology we can differentiate between smart bombs and new weapons and war driven medical advancements, vs. cell phones and word processors and computers. Not to mention the socially crippled, Carpal tunnel challenged young folks on the street today.
And the "romance" was very real! I wouldn't say "no fights" but they went from 95% fights, to less than 5% fights, or no fights if you were lucky. Now don't get me wrong, I loved to drink and fight as much as the next person. It became Cool to be Hip though, and we all changed - really and for real, not a romance! For sure, truly, really really happened:)
And on a very very large scale - like almost ALL of society...In all the US states, and overseas to!

